I'm about to go off. I would rather project my shit on here as opposed to inappropriate places.
I understand the deal -- trust me. I understand that sometimes people are not on the same wavelength as you and therefore friendships don't develop. There's nothing wrong with them or me. I get that. Please don't preach this premise to me because I understand. I'm in a sorority, and I want to disaffiliate. Why the fuck are these girls who never even bother to connect with me, when I consistently text them and ask how they're doing and they never bother to do the same, my sisters? Why should I interact with you? I'm a premed student, I have a business to take care of, I am very busy. I don't give my time for just anyone, yet that's expected to be happening by being part of this group WITHOUT GETTING ANYTHING BACK IN RETURN AACCEPT FOR STRESS, HEADACHE AND TRIGGERS.
Understand my frustration is that sororities are VERY time and energy consuming. I come from an Arab background. Our cultural definition of friendship is different. This... this is too shallow for me to consisntely be occupied with it. It's not worth my time.
This is NOT WHAT WAS ADVERTISED. Sororities are known to establish friendships where you can hangout. You're telling me I'm in a sorority where all 60+ girls are """"""busy"""""" for a whole fucking summer, THEN they go and meet up with their family lines when I in fact have expressed interest in hanging out and told them to let me know, and you still insist that big and little relationship is nothing (as I don't really like my family line) --- like no piss off.
Oh and the annoying part is when you go to express this to the president, they fucking deny it with all the wonderful aspects of sorority, that you haven't yet experience. Like no fuck off.
I'm so fucking mad
I understand the deal -- trust me. I understand that sometimes people are not on the same wavelength as you and therefore friendships don't develop. There's nothing wrong with them or me. I get that. Please don't preach this premise to me because I understand. I'm in a sorority, and I want to disaffiliate. Why the fuck are these girls who never even bother to connect with me, when I consistently text them and ask how they're doing and they never bother to do the same, my sisters? Why should I interact with you? I'm a premed student, I have a business to take care of, I am very busy. I don't give my time for just anyone, yet that's expected to be happening by being part of this group WITHOUT GETTING ANYTHING BACK IN RETURN AACCEPT FOR STRESS, HEADACHE AND TRIGGERS.
Understand my frustration is that sororities are VERY time and energy consuming. I come from an Arab background. Our cultural definition of friendship is different. This... this is too shallow for me to consisntely be occupied with it. It's not worth my time.
This is NOT WHAT WAS ADVERTISED. Sororities are known to establish friendships where you can hangout. You're telling me I'm in a sorority where all 60+ girls are """"""busy"""""" for a whole fucking summer, THEN they go and meet up with their family lines when I in fact have expressed interest in hanging out and told them to let me know, and you still insist that big and little relationship is nothing (as I don't really like my family line) --- like no piss off.
Oh and the annoying part is when you go to express this to the president, they fucking deny it with all the wonderful aspects of sorority, that you haven't yet experience. Like no fuck off.
I'm so fucking mad
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