I got dropped twice from sorority recruitment, I got into a organization the first time I went out, then went out again and told me no matter what I did there was nothing i could do to be able to join their org, even if I went to more activities, that they had, While they said the activities were open to anyone on campus, even if I went to them, no matter what I said or did, I couldnt get in to the org. They also refused to give me an explanation as to why this was and when I asked, all they said was "you cant get a bid, from us and we cant tell you why not not, we are sworn to secrecy", This just seems incredibly mean to me, offering someone a position in an org, and then saying they can't have it anymore, without an explanation, and even to say no matter what you do, or say, you still cant get in.
the only hypothesis I have is ig, trying too hard to seem interesting and show my strengths to the point that it backfires and people think im being condescending nad one upping them. Like them: what did you do this weekend? I travelled here here and here, what did you do, and they say nothing, I guess they feel one upped. But i feel like I am supposed to try and be interesting, and not boring, so they want me in their org. Since rush at my school isnt that hard, and like 75 percent of my school gets into greek life I feel like there is honestly soemthing wrong with how I interact with ppl. I honestly feel like the entire world hates me..... and my personality, and i think its unfair bc, I show concern for others, ask about them and try to be positive, but I still lose out.
Also arent you supposed to show your strengths and talents to greek organizations, and try and tell good stories? Like what else could I possibly be doing wrong that is causing all these people to have such a dislike for me as a person and my personality? I try and be nice to everyone, positive and outgoing
Im also never mean to anyone, and i never backtalk anyone or insult them, so why do these people dislike me with such a passion?
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