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I'm a freshman in high-school and i just started dating my boyfriend who has been one of my best friends for the past few years. My feelings for him are starting to weaken. I don't really know why but i think I might like girls. I'm not sure if I'm lesbian or if I could just be bi or going through a phase. Either way I'm sure myself, my friends and my family will accept me; that's not my issue. What my issue is is that I'm unsure, and I know i have a long life ahead of me to figure out my sexuality, but is there any way, time, or place that i would be able to figure out for sure? How will I know? Do you have any advice for finding out? About my boyfriend, I don't want to break up with him and ruin the friendship, but I also don't want to waste his time with someone who doesn't really like him. If you have any advice on that, that'll be great! Thanks, I hope someone can help.
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You're right that you have as much time as you need to figure out who you are and who you like. This advice may sound cheesy, but just be true to yourself. There is no right or wrong way to do this...everyone is different and has different feelings and experiences. Live life doing what makes you happy and eventually you'll figure out exactly who you are. About the boyfriend, if you are in a relationship and your feelings change, it may be helpful to talk to him/her about it. This way, you are being honest and they can also have the choice to decide to stay in the relationship or end it if it's not right for them. Call us anytime to discuss further at 888-222-2228.
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