I feel like I really blew it, this time. You see, I have this..friend. Let's call him "A." A and I have been friends for a while. We tell each other everything. He's my best friend! To add to this, my ex-boyfriend (let's call him "B") came back into my life. I'm not one to usually hold a grudge, but this time, it is necessary. He lied about his feelings for me, we went out for a long time, and then I found out that he had liked this other girl the WHOLE TIME. And yet still, he lied to me until I asked him about the information I had heard-- he couldn't lie to me this time. SO, he is back- with a new (different) girlfriend. But suddenly, those angry feeling and the grudge disappears. I feel like I like him again. But then... I think I like A. But A has a girlfriend! (Oh, and if I hadn't mentioned it... A TOLD ME HE LIKES ME AND NOW I AM REALLY CONFUSED). Part of me wants to be in a relationship with A... but then part of me wants to follow my side for B... but I feel like I can't do either of those things. I have always felt like in order to be in love with someone else, you should learn to love yourself first. But I don't love myself. In fact, I hate myself! Everyday, my therapist tells me to give myself compliments... but they all seem like lies I want to love them... I do... but I can't do that until I can love myself... I'm just so confused and lost... It is as if I am walking down a long, long hallway. And it is dark. And all of the doors are locked. And I'm just... stuck.
And I feel like a real pest sometimes, when I wanna talk to them. Help.
And I feel like a real pest sometimes, when I wanna talk to them. Help.
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