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Okay so I am a 14 year old boy and I have been having a lot of dreams about giving different men blow jobs and having sex with them. For example, in one of my dreams I gave oral sex to one of my teachers , and once I dreamed that I gave oral sex to my dad's friend's. Does this mean anything about my sexual orientation? Because I have had a lot of girlfriends and I got oral sex from a girl before. I know that part of puberty is that your hormones make you question tour sexuality and make you curious. is this just one of those phases?
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It is not unusual to go through some feelings of confusion about sexuality as you get older and it sounds like that might be what is happening for you. Attraction is often very complicated, and can frequently change during a person's lifetime. There is nothing wrong with finding people of various genders attractive. You do not have to define yourself in a specific label. You can simply like who you like, and not define your sexuality as gay, straight, or bisexual.
It also is possible to fantasize about girls or guys sexually and not be bisexual. In fact, during adolescence it is normal to question sexuality! If you are feeling more of a sexual connection to guys then it could be more than just an attraction, but give yourself some time to sort your feelings out.
Here are two educational and resourceful websites, one is Planned Parenthood @ http://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexuality and a sex education website that has stats and blogs @ http://www.scarleteen.com/. If you want to talk more about your feelings or anything else call 2NDFLOOR @ 888-222-2228 or text @ 908-280-0235 on daily from 4-8 pm. I hope that helped you!
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