So...I Have nobody to talk to. So I thought second floor is great. So quick facts about me. I am going to eighth grade this fall. I dont date because it is against my religion in islam. I used to be a gymnast. My parents believe when I get my period, I should be starting to dress approprietly not to show much skin. Google how teenage girls live being Muslim so you understand the point. I got my period before but I did not tell my parents because I dont want them to treat me like a teenager. Telling me what I can and cant do, what I can wear and not wear, and in the future who to date and not date. So growing up is a fear, and I am afraid if I tell my mom, my life is gonna change, because I believe being a muslim kid is so much easier because you dont have much responibilities. I am really shy to talk to my mom and my family in general about my problems and personal stuff such as puberty. My mom and dad have different point of view than me. For ex., if I tell them a boy is bullying me and teasing me, they would just say they are kids so it is natural. Like they dont help me and they put it in me that I am sensitive, which I am not. So, I need help and tips telling my mom that I got my "1st" period. How to bring it up? How to find the right time? What if she was in a bad mood? How to tell her in a way that she wouldnt tell the rest of the family, things like that.
2nd problem is.... I have a crush on a christian boy. Muslim girls are not allowed to date, and to my parents it is not acceptable. But I really like him.I had a subtle crush on him since I saw him, like in 5th grade. But now it really hitting me. I am jealos when I see him with his girlfriend. How can I stop thinking about it?
3rd... I keep breaking down crying at night before i sleep so no one would suspect a thing. I feel that everything is hitting me up all at once. I am experiancing crushes and it is confusing, knowing I cant go on a date with this person, I am afraid to tell my parents about my period, and another problem of mine which go on to read...
4th... The nurse knows and so does the councelor along time ago, and I dont want them to know that I hid such important thing from them. So read "Haunting" becaue it is the same person who wrote than. Can everthing be fine? After this month's period, can I pretend like nothing happened? Tell me something that will ease my mind?
See.... Those are all stresses and I am afraid to start school so yeah,
Thank you very much
2nd problem is.... I have a crush on a christian boy. Muslim girls are not allowed to date, and to my parents it is not acceptable. But I really like him.I had a subtle crush on him since I saw him, like in 5th grade. But now it really hitting me. I am jealos when I see him with his girlfriend. How can I stop thinking about it?
3rd... I keep breaking down crying at night before i sleep so no one would suspect a thing. I feel that everything is hitting me up all at once. I am experiancing crushes and it is confusing, knowing I cant go on a date with this person, I am afraid to tell my parents about my period, and another problem of mine which go on to read...
4th... The nurse knows and so does the councelor along time ago, and I dont want them to know that I hid such important thing from them. So read "Haunting" becaue it is the same person who wrote than. Can everthing be fine? After this month's period, can I pretend like nothing happened? Tell me something that will ease my mind?
See.... Those are all stresses and I am afraid to start school so yeah,
Thank you very much
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