Hello
I'm a high school student in New Jersey, and I know a girl who has been going through hell.
Her household is incredibly toxic. Her mother calls her worthless and a freak and worse almost daily. This girl has been told by her mother to kill herself on multiple occasions and has been locked out of the house in the freezing cold several times. Her mother takes medicines for mental illness and her father is neglectful with apparent drinking problems. In general, they act very emotionally abusive toward her. Her two siblings also do not help, not supportive in the least and treating her with scorn. I know for a fact that she has considered committing suicide and I have feared for her life more times than a few. Recently, the girl injured her ankle to the point where she could not walk and her parents refused to get her medical help. She does have a counselor and takes anti-depression meds but this does not stop the way her family treats her and she continues to spiral downward into hopelessness.
I want to help her but I don't know how.
Can I get soon or immediate aid for something like the above?
If I call and report this, will there be 100% chance of an investigation? If so, how will the investigation work? I do not want to cause her more trouble by inciting the rage of her family.
She has an aunt that she could potentially live with, but how will this effect her financial and legal situation? ie. Will she still be able to go to college?
If she has to go into foster care, again, how would that effect her financial and legal situation?
In the meantime, is there anything else that I or her other friends can do to help?
I don't want my friend to suffer anymore.
Thank you
I'm a high school student in New Jersey, and I know a girl who has been going through hell.
Her household is incredibly toxic. Her mother calls her worthless and a freak and worse almost daily. This girl has been told by her mother to kill herself on multiple occasions and has been locked out of the house in the freezing cold several times. Her mother takes medicines for mental illness and her father is neglectful with apparent drinking problems. In general, they act very emotionally abusive toward her. Her two siblings also do not help, not supportive in the least and treating her with scorn. I know for a fact that she has considered committing suicide and I have feared for her life more times than a few. Recently, the girl injured her ankle to the point where she could not walk and her parents refused to get her medical help. She does have a counselor and takes anti-depression meds but this does not stop the way her family treats her and she continues to spiral downward into hopelessness.
I want to help her but I don't know how.
Can I get soon or immediate aid for something like the above?
If I call and report this, will there be 100% chance of an investigation? If so, how will the investigation work? I do not want to cause her more trouble by inciting the rage of her family.
She has an aunt that she could potentially live with, but how will this effect her financial and legal situation? ie. Will she still be able to go to college?
If she has to go into foster care, again, how would that effect her financial and legal situation?
In the meantime, is there anything else that I or her other friends can do to help?
I don't want my friend to suffer anymore.
Thank you
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