What a year it's been. Just thinking about it makes me want to throw up. This is the year my parents got divorced. My mom chose to get up and leave. But she didn't tell anyone she was gonna. She sat my brother and I down and told us she got an apartment and that the following week when my father came back from vacation she would be moving into her apartment. My dad had no idea she was going to go and for an entire week I was expected to keep that secret from him each time he and I spoke on the phone. So I did. I have always had a lot of negative feelings about my mom, but now more than ever. I was always angry with her for not being there for me. When I was suicidal she didn't care much until my school told her to take me to the hospital. To me, yes she's my mother but there's no way that she's my mom. Especially now because she doesn't even call me. She makes no effort to see me. I rely on my boyfriend's mom to be that mother figure. I miss my mom though, despite these negative feelings. Something makes me miss her even though I almost hate her for what she has done. My father, brother and I have almost lost the house we are living in. We don't get to eat dinner every night (Sometimes I go to my boyfriends house so my brother and dad have enough to eat). I feel alone. I cry so much. And I am just confused about my feelings. All because of my mother.
My parent's divorce was official in October. This year I also had a lot of injuries from dance. I even got four stitches under my eyebrow. I also got sun poisoning. Sprained my ankle the night before a competition. A lot of tiny things happened this year that make the main event just that much worse. The holidays are so depressing. And now my confusion on how to feel about my mom is getting worse. How should I feel? I don't know where to begin. I can't decide if I love her or if I want nothing to do with her. Help me?
My parent's divorce was official in October. This year I also had a lot of injuries from dance. I even got four stitches under my eyebrow. I also got sun poisoning. Sprained my ankle the night before a competition. A lot of tiny things happened this year that make the main event just that much worse. The holidays are so depressing. And now my confusion on how to feel about my mom is getting worse. How should I feel? I don't know where to begin. I can't decide if I love her or if I want nothing to do with her. Help me?
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