I'm 13 years old, and by this time girls would be dressing up in girly outfits and putting on an unnecessary amount of makeup. However with me I'm the opposite. I like to dress in more sweatshirts and plaid shirts and wear a baseball cap backwards. I don't take it too far with dressing like this, my wardrobe has many girl clothes too, just not the girly type. My dad and my brother are fine with it as long as I have limits, but my mom thinks I'm trying to become a boy.
This bothers me because not only is she telling me I dress weird, but now she's telling me my personality need to change. I don't know how to change my personality, nor do I want to. I like the way I am now, but every time I wear a cap backwards, she yells at me and brings it up during times that aren't even appropriate. This has gotten worse over time, now all she ever talks about with my family is how I act and dress. She makes wants me to be a, and I quotes, a "normal girl". She says this every time I'm wearing something she doesn't like.
My dad keeps telling me to just back off, and I can understand because my mom hates how my dads acts as well. My brother sticks up for me, but since he has autism, my mom uses that against him. The rest of my family don't know about how my mom acts, because she makes it as if I was the problem. The arguments that we have gotten into have gotten so bad, I now have cuts on my arms. I go to therapy for it because my mom doesn't want anyone else to see. She only worries about her reputation.
She he doesn't care about my feelings and I'm starting to think that it's never going to change unless I just get another mom (which is unrealistically impossible)
I want her to understand that she's only making home more of a war zone, and coming home is like a suicide mission. And sometimes it is.
This bothers me because not only is she telling me I dress weird, but now she's telling me my personality need to change. I don't know how to change my personality, nor do I want to. I like the way I am now, but every time I wear a cap backwards, she yells at me and brings it up during times that aren't even appropriate. This has gotten worse over time, now all she ever talks about with my family is how I act and dress. She makes wants me to be a, and I quotes, a "normal girl". She says this every time I'm wearing something she doesn't like.
My dad keeps telling me to just back off, and I can understand because my mom hates how my dads acts as well. My brother sticks up for me, but since he has autism, my mom uses that against him. The rest of my family don't know about how my mom acts, because she makes it as if I was the problem. The arguments that we have gotten into have gotten so bad, I now have cuts on my arms. I go to therapy for it because my mom doesn't want anyone else to see. She only worries about her reputation.
She he doesn't care about my feelings and I'm starting to think that it's never going to change unless I just get another mom (which is unrealistically impossible)
I want her to understand that she's only making home more of a war zone, and coming home is like a suicide mission. And sometimes it is.
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