Mistake

[Unregistered]

Not too long ago, one of my really close guy friends told me that he and his girlfriend broke up. I had a crush on this guy for a long time, and he started flirting with me. He finally asked me hang out. We've hung out before, but this time it was different. We kissed a lot, and we ended up in his bed. He fingered me, which I was okay with, but then he asked me to go a step further and I said no. He told me he would make me. He didn't (thank god) but it scared me to death.
The next day he told everyone what happened and rumors spread very quickly. I found out he didn't break up with his girlfriend at all, and this is not the first time he's cheated o her.
I've never been in a situation like this before. What do I do?

[2NDFLOOR]

This is a tough situation, but it is great that you reached out for help! It is inexcusable and illegal to force, threaten, or coerce someone into doing something sexually that they do not want to do. This is not your fault. It is also not your fault that he lied about having a girlfriend. Perhaps you can reach out to an adult that you trust for help. It would also be beneficial to talk to someone at school for help with the rumors spreading. Check out the website www.bullystopper.com for information and to make a report to your school of the situation. And remember to call 2NDFLOOR anytime at 888-222-2228 for more help! We are here 24/7!