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When i go to school everyone is very sexual. But like its like they are only sexual with kids in there clique. All the girls who have boyfriend make fun of me because i don't have one. They all tell me that i am going to die a virgin, because no boy would dare look at me. That makes me feel really bad, and it hurts me I don't know what to do.
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First of all, what they are saying is untrue and there is no way they could possibly know that. It sounds like they are just being overly mean and picking on you. There is no way to predict in whatever grade you're in if you will ever have a boyfriend or what you will be when you die. Ask them to stop saying these things about you and if they don't, you have the option of approaching someone in your school about what they are saying. A teacher, guidance counselor or school bullying specialist would be helpful in getting this behavior to stop. Secondly, you should only get involved in sexual behaviors when it is something that YOU want to do, not just because everyone around you is doing it. Finally, to say no boy would look at you is foolish, not only wouldn't they know that, but there are people out there that find attraction in many different things. Have you ever heard the saying Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder? Be confident in yourself and eventually the right person (or people over the course of your life) will come along. Call us anytime at 888-222-2228.
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