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    i've lost two friends in the span of a week, in addition with my girlfriend being sent to a hospital for two months with no access to her phone. i know the one friend from the friend group im talking to still has decided to stay neutral, but im scared he'll take their side and end things with me as well, or even worse, he'll take my side and lose 8 whole years of friendship with those two friends. no petty argument is worth that.

    i did bad things to them, i admit that, and i apologized for said bad things, but they did bad things to me as well, some of which they've never apologized for. in my opinion, in their magnum opus of bad things theyve done to me, they blew up a minecraft realm i worked really hard on with them and other friends for months. (one of them just removed their own creations, which is fine, but i suspect the other blew up my creations as well.)

    i know i should be grateful all of the stress i had surrounding them is finally over, but right now, im just tired. i just want a stable friend group that i actually want to be with, goddamnit. why cant i have that for once?

    but anyways, long rant over. what do i do to try getting over them?

    - mercury, xe/they/he

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    I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling with all these relationships. Friendships are difficult things as you have no control over how other people behave and act. Some friends will last, others will not, some may be in and out. If you're lucky you'll develop a few close friendships in your life that are meaningful and important. It's sounds like the people in your friend group weren't treating you nicely so maybe this could be a positive in disguise. Continue to develop your other friendships and hopefully they will be nicer to you. Maybe even reach out to new people and develop some totally new friendships, you never know who might become a close friend. Call or text us anytime at 888-222-2228.


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