My BFF

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Hi,well my best friend since kindergarten finally was in my class again and I thought it would be so fun because we got along great and we both wanted to be in the same classes.so the first day we found out that I was so excited but she was saying how we wouldent be friend most likely at the end of the year,and I didn't believe her until we got into like the 2nd month of school.she was always in a bad mood which I new wasn't her usual personality so I asked her what was wrong and she just looked up meanly at me so then I asked her if I did anything to upset her and she just ignored me.i left her alone for most of the day because I thought maybe she is just having a bad day.clearly I was wrong because In lunch she had fun laughing with her other friend and didn't say 1 word to me.another day I let her have a pencil and a lot of paper because she didn't have any. The next day I needed paper and I asked her for a piece and she said nothing and just looked at me and down again so I said please and then she just through a piece at me and yelled FINE. on weekends she usually asks if I want to hang out with her like she is a completely different person and I just don't understand her but I hope we can still be friends because I new her so long.

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Hi

Try getting new friends

[2NDFLOOR]

I understand how this situation can be hurtful and confusing for you. You should make plans with her on the weekend and take that time to ask her why she has said those things to you and why she treats you differently in school. Make sure you also explain to her how this is making you feel. It will be a good time to have this conversation since it will only be the two of you. If she continues to treat you differently in school then focus your attention on different things like school work, your other friends, plans for the summer,etc. If she continues to ask you to hang out on the weekends respectfully say no because it is not fair if she is still treating you differently in school. Sometimes friends who have been friends for a long time and who are always together just need space. Maybe some time a part will make your friendship stronger. Summer is almost here and next school year will be a fresh start! Thank you for your post and good luck! Remember to please call 2NDFLOOR Youth Helpline at 1-888-222-2228 if you need more advice!