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So I know this girls since I was in preschool and we have been friends since. But recently she has been on top of me. Not literally but like she will follow where ever I go and do exactly what I do and it's annoying.also, I only told this one girl in my school who I have liked and it wasn't her but she insisted on knowing so the girl I told told her and she still doesn't get that I am mad at her. We have in eighth grade a school trip out of state And she wants to be in my room but I don't really want her. What do I do?
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