Hi, I just need to tell someone this.
I was celebrating Thanksgiving with my boyfriend and his family. Everyone there was drinking and was pretty drunk. I don't really remember most of the night, but I think I remember my boyfriends uncle fingering me. I didn't say no and I vaguely knew what was happening. My boyfriend and I are in a really good place. I don't know why I jeopardized that. I want to blame it on the alcohol, but I didn't say no. I don't know what to do. I don't know if the uncle will say anything. It also could've been my boyfriend that did that, but he said nothing sexual happened between us that night and I believe him. I mentioned to my boyfriend that I remember doing something sexual, but I think he just thinks I'm blaming and not beliving him. Should I tell him what I thought happened? I really don't want to lose him at all. Let alone start a ton of drama in his family. What should I do?
Thanks for reading. I know it was a stupid thing not to say no. I really don't want to lose him though and I really do love him very much.
I was celebrating Thanksgiving with my boyfriend and his family. Everyone there was drinking and was pretty drunk. I don't really remember most of the night, but I think I remember my boyfriends uncle fingering me. I didn't say no and I vaguely knew what was happening. My boyfriend and I are in a really good place. I don't know why I jeopardized that. I want to blame it on the alcohol, but I didn't say no. I don't know what to do. I don't know if the uncle will say anything. It also could've been my boyfriend that did that, but he said nothing sexual happened between us that night and I believe him. I mentioned to my boyfriend that I remember doing something sexual, but I think he just thinks I'm blaming and not beliving him. Should I tell him what I thought happened? I really don't want to lose him at all. Let alone start a ton of drama in his family. What should I do?
Thanks for reading. I know it was a stupid thing not to say no. I really don't want to lose him though and I really do love him very much.
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