My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and I'm starting to think that our relationship is toxic and very unhealthy and I don't know what to do. He has his days and his moments, I mean yeah I have done some bad things in our relationship to upset him but now the thing is "you have to earn my trust back" like seriously, I can't wear shorts that are "too short" in his eyes, I can't wear certain types of shirts or clothes or dress a certain way, I can't talk to any of my guy friends, and then when I go to hang out with my girl friends he always gets mad and I end up leaving the room to answer the phone and argue with him, I have lost so many friends due to him, and he is a really great guy, he really is. For example I was mad at him for some reason the other and I went in the basement and I layed on the couch and put Netflix on and watched it on the computer and then I fell asleep, he came downstairs after I was asleep, turned off the computer, put it away, covered me with a blanket and then kissed my forehead, I miss those sweet things or when he leaves me audio messages they are really cute and stuff, but yesterday he had one of his moments, he's on vacation rn in cape cod, and we both live in new jeresy and I had one of my friends over and her and i were going to go swimming, and then he was like "make sure she doesn't out anything on snapchat or on Instagram of you In bathing suit" and I always have to check in with him and he calls me every 20 minutes and it gets annoying or sometimes we will be in the middle of a conversation and he will have to go and I will be like "oh ok text me later i love you" but if it's the other way around he says "why? what are you doing? BABE?! what's going on? you're acting weird?" and he always goes through my phone and he has my passwords to everything so he always logs in and checks over everything I do and I just don't know what to do I really really love this guy he makes me
so happy and I really don't want to have to break up with it would be reall hard but I just don't know if I can do this anything longer I just don't know what to do, I need help
so happy and I really don't want to have to break up with it would be reall hard but I just don't know if I can do this anything longer I just don't know what to do, I need help
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